You know, everybody has situations when they are confused and arguing about something with themselves. when you have a point and then you're like ' no but what if...' and you find that this point is not a solution of every problem. see? now I am talking about the whole other subject. but Okay let's see how it goes.
Last night i had a statement in my head 'words should never stay unsaid'
but is that right? I mean you should always express your feelings, tell people what you feel but...
we all at least once in our lives liked someone and wished so badly that we were able to talk about our feelings in hope that this person feels the same, but we never dared. So, Let's consider this situation - you never know what's gonna happen maybe you're dying on your way back home and he feels the same, you still don't want to tell him? you see that's the point. but if we look at the situation in a different way there were a lot of examples when people did so, they talked about their feelings with that specific person and that words harmed them. and now they kinda regret saying those words. So this is a difficult subject so i guess you can't use this statement 'words should never stay unsaid' all the time.
Well now Let's talk about the situation when this statement really comes in handy - Our family.
We often think that they live forever and we hardly ever imagine their death then trying to throw that thought out of our head. Well, if you think that describes you well- keep reading because if somebody ever told me those words i am gonna type on my keyboard right now, maybe I actually have thought about it in the past and done things right. Eventually everything comes to it's end and nothing's eternal on this planet. and death comes unplanned it's not gonna warn you or give you a hint. All i am trying to say is - People you love are gonna leave when you don't expect it. and there is going to be a strong pain in your heart because you left some words unsaid. My grandma passed away 4 years ago and I loved her so much - but what can I say, i used to be a mean child , we often argued and now what i regret the most in my life is that I never told her I loved her. I mean i probably have but I wanted to tell her over and over again. Her last year was tough. she couldn't walk and we had a woman to take care after her. I went to her room really seldom. and when she died I was not even in the city. My parents always tell me she used to love me more than anything and I always cry because i was so ungrateful and i didn't appreciate her presence in my life. And I really hope that whole 'life after death' really exists because otherwise these words are meant to be left unsaid forever.
I am sure you got the substance of this post but I want to tell you something before I finish. Whenever you have problems think about other people losing the ones they love right that moment. because, I mean there are a lot of people on earth - 1.8 people die each second! and just forget about little things It's actually a sin to be depressed about them when there are a lot more serious things happening to other people. and mainly appreciate what you have and tell the people you love, your family what you feel about them more often. and not only tell them, do kind things to show them that these words are real and when you say - you really mean them. And simply go hug them right now.
Thanks for reading